Father's Day 2020
Today marks a “first” for me. It’s the first time I’ve lived through as many Father’s Days without my dad alive on earth as I did with him here. I’m the last of his children to reach that marker in the steady passage of time. When he died in 2000, I was just entering adulthood. A lot has changed. We are all used to life without his physical presence, but he still is part of our lives, and always will be. My husband encouraged me today to take some time to reflect once again about my dad. So many good words have been written/spoken about him by so many, that sometimes for a moment it seems easier to stay busy than to stop and think and feel his loss poignantly again. What could I write today that hasn’t been written before? And, yet, I cannot not stop and think. “The memory of the just is blessed.” (Prov. 10:7) And so I remember… He treated people with courtesy and respect. If we were already seated at church and someone, especially an older person, stopp...